Otto Von Blotto Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 So after almost 4 and a half years me and my missus have split up. It's not a nasty breakup and we are still on good terms, although obviously there is a lot of hurt and sadness at the moment. Currently working on transferring the house solely to me. It happened a couple of weeks ago, but we still lived together while she found another place, which she moved to today. I didn't want it to happen but at the same time I can understand why from her point of view. Just gonna focus on my hobbies and things for a while, so plenty of brewing and golf and whatever. I'll be alright in time though as I'm sure she will be too. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MitchBastard Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 Sorry to hear Otto Man. It’s cliche to say but we’ve all been there to some degree, so can understand it’s a tough one. It can only get better mate. get brewing and work on ya short game to keep your mind occupied. cheers 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 13, 2020 Author Share Posted November 13, 2020 Thanks mate. Yeah I've been there before too, just not with property involved. At least we could agree on everything ourselves though, makes it a lot easier. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naughty Corner Brewing Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 Sorry to hear that mate. Cliche to say but keep your chin up and focus on you. Once the hurt settles down I’m sure you’ll see a light forward and look at a new chapter. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 13, 2020 Author Share Posted November 13, 2020 That's pretty much the plan. I suppose it'll seem more real now that she's moved out. But it'll be alright, it always is. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red devil 44 Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 Sorry to hear the bad news mate, but these things happen to us all at some point. ‘Now you can focus on brewing, golfing and your smoker recipes, have asked the boss for a smoker and a Fermzilla for my Chrissy/birthday presents of which I got the ok ‘So that means I can go to Bunnings or BBQ,s Galore & have some fun, within monetary reasons of course. Onwards & upwards mate, take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ben 10 Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 OUCH, don't turn to drink mate. Ht all works out and you come out the other side better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kmar92 Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 That is always crappy news, there will be pain but there is also light in the future. Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 13, 2020 Author Share Posted November 13, 2020 Yeah not turning to drink. I'm having a few tonight but that's normal for a Friday. I'll be alright, been through it before. It hurts a lot of course but I know that'll fade away. At least I have plenty of things to keep me busy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hairy Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 That sucks mate. All the best getting through it. But whatever you do, don’t turn to golf. That stuff is bad for you. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malter White Posted November 13, 2020 Share Posted November 13, 2020 You are now king of the remote controller. You can leave the toilet seat in any position you choose. Yes, you can eat the leftover schnitzel in the fridge. It's not being saved for someone else's lunch. So many positives are coming out of this. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 14, 2020 Author Share Posted November 14, 2020 5 hours ago, Hairy said: That sucks mate. All the best getting through it. But whatever you do, don’t turn to golf. That stuff is bad for you. Cheers. Golf is a good escape though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 14, 2020 Author Share Posted November 14, 2020 3 hours ago, MUZZY said: You are now king of the remote controller. You can leave the toilet seat in any position you choose. Yes, you can eat the leftover schnitzel in the fridge. It's not being saved for someone else's lunch. So many positives are coming out of this. I could already do all that, we had two TVs and bathrooms What's this leftover schnitzel thing you're talking about? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malter White Posted November 14, 2020 Share Posted November 14, 2020 3 minutes ago, Otto Von Blotto said: What's this leftover schnitzel thing you're talking about? It's a myth. My son recently moved back home. We don't have left over schnitzel any more either. LOL 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 14, 2020 Author Share Posted November 14, 2020 4 hours ago, MUZZY said: It's a myth. My son recently moved back home. We don't have left over schnitzel any more either. LOL Never did in this house 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aussiekraut Posted November 15, 2020 Share Posted November 15, 2020 Sorry to hear mate. It always sucks. No matter what I say, it's not gonna make one iota of a difference but keep your head up and go on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shamus O'Sean Posted November 15, 2020 Share Posted November 15, 2020 That certainly is crappy news. I hope spending too much time with us was not part of the issue. Do not listen to those wowsers above, in the words of one of our heros "To get hangovers you have to stop drinking". Seriously though take it easy. It sounds like things happened gradually, but still when it does happen, all of the little issues become less important. You'll get back in the game when you are good and ready. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamiek86 Posted November 16, 2020 Share Posted November 16, 2020 On 11/14/2020 at 7:04 AM, Hairy said: That sucks mate. All the best getting through it. But whatever you do, don’t turn to golf. That stuff is bad for you. no mate its a good chance to walk around outside and wack a ball im that bad I dont even score any more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamiek86 Posted November 16, 2020 Share Posted November 16, 2020 I'm only new around these parts and its sad to hear i went through this about 4 years ago and 6 months later was back with her 3 1/2 years later she still pain in my ass and keep me awake snoring. Stay strong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hairy Posted November 16, 2020 Share Posted November 16, 2020 23 minutes ago, jamiek86 said: im that bad I dont even score any more Are you still talking about golf? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamiek86 Posted November 16, 2020 Share Posted November 16, 2020 5 minutes ago, Hairy said: Are you still talking about golf? you could probably use that statement to describe many things 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 16, 2020 Author Share Posted November 16, 2020 (edited) Thanks mate, yeah going ok considering. I guess now she's moved out it'll be easier for both of us to move forward. I don't expect we'll get back together but who knows. Edited November 16, 2020 by Otto Von Blotto Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MitchBastard Posted November 16, 2020 Share Posted November 16, 2020 On 11/14/2020 at 6:04 AM, Hairy said: But whatever you do, don’t turn to golf. That stuff is bad for you. Best way to ruin a good walk 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otto Von Blotto Posted November 16, 2020 Author Share Posted November 16, 2020 8 hours ago, MitchBastard said: Best way to ruin a good walk Dad says that too. Sometimes I agree, but mostly I play well enough to enjoy myself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hairy Posted November 16, 2020 Share Posted November 16, 2020 5 minutes ago, Otto Von Blotto said: Dad says that too. Sometimes I agree, but mostly I play well enough to enjoy myself I think it depends on your expectations. I used to play with a guy that thought he was a pro so he spent the whole time frustrated with his poor play. I expect to play poorly so I get excited when I hit a good shot. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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